You're getting married and everything you've heard about wedding planning is true. It can be very hard. So, to make it easier, keep your focus on your relationship. Plan your wedding vows and then plan your wedding ceremony and reception to celebrate them. Invite the guests you want to hear and support those vows. See? It's already easier.
But here are ten ways you and your partner can carefully tend to one another and tenderly care for one another through the wedding planning process and for the rest of your life that will make the process more fun, get you both eagerly involved and BTW result in a great marriage if you keep paying attention. Here are 10 ways to make wedding planning relationship building:
I can't emphasize the need to spend time quiet time with your sweetheart enough. Sometimes you share activities. Sometimes you have parallel ones. However you're spending time together, here are some great things to practice with your beloved.
Practice your compliments. You're beautiful, you're talented, you sure can cook/wash dishes/make my life wonderful. Tell your beloved everyday why you fell in love. It'll help you remember. Particularly do it when you're feeling irritated with your darling.
Practice your gratitude. I give thanks every day for you. Today, I'm particularly grateful for your easy laughter, dedication to family, ability to sing like Alvin the chipmunk. The more reasons you give, the more reasons you find. Everyone responds to gratitude!
Practice problem solving. If you have problems, deal with the problems, rather than the "wow, aren't you a pain movement" away from your partner. Get help if you need to, but find a way to talk about your troubles and manage or even solve them! Wedding planning brings up a lot!
Every day. You've married the most wonderful person in the world. If that's not a reason to stop griping, I don't know what is?
. Dating is a great thing for married couples to do. Not, I'll meet you for dinner... No, will you go out to dinner with me? Plan something special at least once a week. It doesn't need to be huge. Go for a great glass of wine or a special hot chocolate? Do something your partner loves. The payback is that he or she will get the hint.
Practice taking care of yourself. Nothing says I love you, like regular trips to the dentist, doctor, hairdresser, drycleaner, gym. The healthier you stay, the longer you'll be married. The cuter you are the greater the fringe benefits!
Practice spoiling one another. Here's the catch about spoiling your partner. You need to know what they like or it's not spoiling. It's energy that doesn't give you anything except perhaps resentment. Why would my sweetie beloved give me that? Listening is the key here.
Practice your devotion. Do something every day that is a gesture of love. Do something that helps you remember that you love your partner. Something that helps her or him remember that you love them. Something that helps you remember that you are loved by this remarkable person. This process keeps love building and rebuilding.
Practice your lovemaking. Kissing, hand holding, back rubbing, physical intimacy takes work. When you do the work, you get the payoff and a sweetly loving partner is the most wonderful gift in the world. Do the work!
Practice the balance. Time apart, time together. Time working on home and relationship. Time for work, time for play. Marriage is about the two of you individually and the two of you as a couple. Find your rhythm.
If this is your marriage practice, your marriage will be a happy one indeed!
Bottom Line?: Give your relationship the chance it deserves to succeed wildly, against all odds! After all, you deserve it. Your relationship deserves it!
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Planning Your Perfect Wedding - 10 Ways to Build Love During the Perfect Wedding-Planning Process
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Wednesday, December 24, 2008